tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13885145.post4704820330401935810..comments2023-07-05T19:17:53.115+08:00Comments on Tampin Linggi: Trust ?Apandihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06385700113729397417noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13885145.post-6933993917241173302007-05-20T10:27:00.000+08:002007-05-20T10:27:00.000+08:00LM, yes and yes.LM, yes and yes.Apandihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06385700113729397417noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13885145.post-43871158896303017412007-05-17T23:58:00.000+08:002007-05-17T23:58:00.000+08:00A sad story indeed about Dev, but well done on him...A sad story indeed about Dev, but well done on him for taking the chance. Let's hope he tries again someday with more success.<BR/><BR/>Always a back up plan!lady macleodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12830048414719866472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13885145.post-42128953947469085382007-05-17T06:01:00.000+08:002007-05-17T06:01:00.000+08:00Please, it puts fhoto of Madeleine in your Bloggue...Please, it puts fhoto of Madeleine in your Bloggue <BR/><BR/>Missing Madeleine!<BR/>Madeleine, MeCann was abduted from Praia da Luz, Portugal on 03/03/07.<BR/><BR/>If you have any information, please contact Crimestoppers on <BR/>0800 555 111<BR/><BR/>Please Helpdavid santoshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08976825493652779441noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13885145.post-19899117631905839162007-05-16T22:37:00.000+08:002007-05-16T22:37:00.000+08:00Yes you are all right. Its just that sometimes in ...Yes you are all right. Its just that sometimes in life, you are dealt with a bad card. Those bad cards are usually the insecure or psychologically deficient or came from bad circumstances. Its just sad.Apandihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06385700113729397417noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13885145.post-10792323722896577332007-05-16T18:29:00.000+08:002007-05-16T18:29:00.000+08:00I'm back.. tried commenting earlier but Google ser...I'm back.. tried commenting earlier but Google server had an error. Not sure if it went through. (If you have an earlier comment of mine, please delete that. Thanks!)<BR/><BR/>I feel so bad for Dev. Total devastation of the heart and soul.I have a relative who was married to a materially-driven lady. He was flying out of the country a lot. I do not know if she did it out of frustration of not having him around or she was just plain mean. She max-ed every credit card he had. Everytime he made a payment, she spent more. He had no chance to regain financial stability. Then she bugged him about taking over his parent's home. It was one thing after another. I don't think he knew what he was getting into. She was very sweet during their courtship. <BR/>Every relationship has a risk. We either trust that person or we don't. I agree with you, "Yes, trust but keep at least one back up plan, just in case..."<BR/><BR/>I cannot understand some people sometimes. How do they do that to someone? Don't they know it can come back to bite them someday? As Ruby said, "what goes around, comes around"J.T.https://www.blogger.com/profile/13729752991744815923noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13885145.post-83168122495643812332007-05-16T18:03:00.000+08:002007-05-16T18:03:00.000+08:00Sad story Cap, happens all the time. We take the p...Sad story Cap, happens all the time. We take the plunge, with good intentions, but as mortals, we can only hope for the best.. For me, I spent a long time looking, Insya'Allah, I hope the jodoh goes far. Because Cap, I jumped with both feet in.. Therefore no back-up plan.. which is how I wanted it. My spouse knew what a dirty rotten scoundrel I was (perhap still am?) when she met me - so I owe hell of a lot to her for keeping me firmly grounded. I bear no pretensions of being a Goody-2-kasut Cap.. But aah, you know me, so do my closest friends. Salaam.Mat Salohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13660319094415586065noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13885145.post-8955081611576829022007-05-16T12:23:00.000+08:002007-05-16T12:23:00.000+08:00Some people bro...some people...they are just as m...Some people bro...some people...they are just as manipulative as they can be and surely an opportunist too... I guess Dev met an opportunist who waited for the the moment to be manipulative...<BR/><BR/>It's the risk of the married life. That who ever is daring enuf to take it would venture the risk and whoever is not prefers to have the 'doubt' thought and feeling for the other half...But as you said, it's very unhealthy...<BR/><BR/>Some people just forget or insensitive enough to meaning of trust and betraying the trust has no impact to their soul I guess...Raden Galohhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13504930116365592366noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13885145.post-82426756960673533102007-05-16T10:12:00.000+08:002007-05-16T10:12:00.000+08:00Personally, I am wary of those overly kind and pol...Personally, I am wary of those overly kind and polite types, you know, pijak semut pun tak mati, always with a forced smile...<BR/><BR/>Yes, trust but, keep at least one back up plan, just in case...Apandihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06385700113729397417noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13885145.post-45029900554859727122007-05-16T09:04:00.000+08:002007-05-16T09:04:00.000+08:00Oh Apandi, I forgot the last bit, as for should on...Oh Apandi, I forgot the last bit, as for should one trust your spouse? I am totally in agreement with your take. Just do it. Better to know earlier than later.ruby ahmadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00462582684731705669noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13885145.post-89672510122660095562007-05-16T09:01:00.000+08:002007-05-16T09:01:00.000+08:00Hi Apandi,Oh so sorry to hear about Dev. He must b...Hi Apandi,<BR/><BR/>Oh so sorry to hear about Dev. He must be quite (read:totallly) wrecked and heartbroken. I too wonder why people do that. Why they are so materially driven. Even if the relationship does not work out, why wipe out the poor partner clean.<BR/><BR/>Sometimes, people forget, 'what goes around comes around'. People forget 'Life has a funny way of being fair'. Most of all, poor Dev's mum.<BR/><BR/>That's why, I like people who are spontaneous. Don't buy all these goody-two-shoes put-ons. I read from my gut now (sometimes I win and sometimes not) Sigh! Thanks for sharing this story.ruby ahmadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00462582684731705669noreply@blogger.com